Gender Justice Advocate Abdulwalli Shariff has explained that the
essence of marriage in the Quran is defined by a message of tranquility, love
and mercy.
In an interview with the Star, Shariff said that in a time where
relationships face growing social and emotional challenges, the Qur’an offers a
timeless and deeply resonant foundation for marriage rooted in peace and
compassion.
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves
mates that you may find tranquility in them; and He placed between you
affection and mercy. Indeed, in that are signs for a people who give
thought, (Surah Ar - Rum 30:21),” Shariff said.
He said this powerful verse from the Qur’an reveals that
marriage is not merely a contract but a divine sign—one grounded in sukoon
(tranquility), mawaddah (affection), and rahmah (mercy).
"It reminds us that at the heart of every strong union
lies emotional harmony and spiritual connection," Shariff said.
He said communities reflect on the values that sustain
families and uplift societies.
Shariff said this verse offers a guiding principle that true
partnership is one of shared peace, mutual love, and kindness.
"And when you divorce women and they have fulfilled
their term, either retain them in kindness or release them in kindness. And do
not retain them to harm them or transgress (Surah Al Baqarah 2:231) he said.
Shariff noted that marriage and even divorce must be guided
by respect, justice, and compassion.
"A powerful reminder that dignity must remain, even
when relationships end," he said.
He said the Quran allows people to marry women of their
choice, two, three, or four.
"But if you fear you cannot be just, then [marry only]
one… (Surah An-Nisa 4:3)," Shariff said.
He says this verse permits polygamy, but justice is the
strict condition.
"If fairness cannot be guaranteed, monogamy is the only
path allowed. The message is clear: justice comes first — always," he
said.
He noted that the Qur’an contains complete guidance for
humanity, and nothing essential has been omitted ( Sura Al - An'an 6:38).
"In a world seeking direction, this message reminds us that divine wisdom remains accessible, relevant, and whole," Shariff said.
